Every single week, someone slides into my DMs with the same question: where should we go next? For years I didn't have a clean answer, just a mental list of states, a handful of half-written notes, and a gut feeling about what worked for us. So I built this instead — one map, every state we've explored together, and a direct link to the real guide for each one.
How I pick our next stop
I don't pick a destination because it's trending or because everyone else is posting about it. I pick it because the flight is cheap, the budget actually makes sense, and my daughter is going to remember it. That's the whole system, really — the same one behind the Adventure Budget Blueprint: let the flight price and the budget point you toward a state, not the other way around.
Some of our best trips happened purely because a $79 fare told us exactly where to go that year. So before I ever publish a state guide, I've already lived it — the flights, the budget math, the meltdown in the rental car line, all of it. That's why every state on this map comes with a real guide, not a list I copied from somewhere else.
Grab the budgeting system that decides where we go before we ever fall in love with a destination we can't actually afford.
Get the Adventure Budget Blueprint →Tap a state to start exploring
Every shaded state below has its own guide waiting for you — what it actually cost us, what we packed, and the mistakes I made so you don't have to. Tap a state to see what's there.
16 states explored and guided so far — new guides added every time we add another stamp.
What's next on the list
This map isn't close to finished, and that's the whole point. Every new trip means a new state gets shaded in, and I'll keep adding the real guide behind it, not a rewritten version of someone else's itinerary. If you don't see your state yet, it's probably already on our list.
So don't wait for the "right" year, the bigger paycheck, or the trip that feels perfectly planned. Pick a state, check the budget, book the flight.
"There's no excuse good enough to keep waiting for someday.
— Nicole, Solo Adventure Mom

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